As I stand on the cusp of my fourth decade, I carry the vigor of youth coupled with the wisdom that each year has hammered into my soul. It’s a time to reflect, recalibrate, and charge into the remainder of my life with a refined game plan.

Here’s a roadmap of 15 life lessons to fortify your resolve and catalyze your journey to an extraordinary life.

It’s critical to learn these as early as possible because they have the power to change your life.

I’m not exaggerating.

They’re truly life-changing!

  1. The Might of Compound Interest: Understand the mathematical magic of compound interest. Its power extends beyond finance, into knowledge, skills, and relationships. Embrace it early, and watch your life compound into something remarkable.
  2. Dismiss the Audience: People’s opinions are the cheap seats from which they watch you battle in the arena. Stay fierce, stay focused, and remember whose life it is.
  3. Debt: A Modern-Day Shackle: Unchain yourself from the crippling grip of debt. It’s a merciless foe, robbing you of freedom. Slay it, and reclaim your liberty.
  4. Risk: The Currency of the Bold: Life’s a relentless series of calculated risks. The bolder the risk, the bigger the reward. Embrace it, learn from it, thrive on it.
  5. Master the Art of Rejection: No is not a full stop, but a comma in your life’s narrative. Learn to dish it out, take it on the chin, and move forward with a grin.
  6. Velocity Over Speed: It’s not just about moving fast, but moving in the right direction. Aim your life’s arrow wisely.
  7. Mental Fortress: The battles you face are won or lost in the corridors of your mind. Sharpen your mental prowess, it’s your greatest ally.
  8. Fail Forward: Each failure is a disguised lesson. Wear your failures as badges of honor, each one propelling you closer to your goal.
  9. Mediocrity: The Silent Killer: Do not be lulled into the suffocating embrace of mediocrity. Demand excellence from yourself in every endeavor.
  10. Skill Mastery: Be relentless in the pursuit of mastering your craft. Excellence is not an act, but a habit.
  11. Seek Discomfort: The comfort zone is a barren land where dreams wither. Venture beyond, into the realm of discomfort, that’s where your potential resides.
  12. Authentic Connections: Build relationships that are profound, genuine, and enriching. Quality trumps quantity every time.
  13. Your Health is Your Wealth: Without a sturdy vessel, your journey is doomed. Prioritize your health; it’s the real wealth.
  14. Generosity is a Boomerang: Extend generosity, and watch it return in spades. It’s not just about material wealth, but a richness of spirit.
  15. Time: The Ultimate Commodity: It’s finite, it’s precious, and it’s slipping through your fingers even as you read this. Make every second count.

…And the saga of life continues.

Within each lesson lies a golden nugget.

Forged in the furnace of experience, ready to be wielded by those daring enough to seize them.

I’m grateful that I learned these lessons by my 38th birthday.

It’s better late than never.

May these lessons be the bedrock upon which you build an empire of extraordinary life experiences.

Rise up, the world is yours to conquer.

Onward 🫡

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